Become Comfortable Speaking on Camera – It worked for me

🧠 Let’s be honest: Most people freeze when the camera turns on. You suddenly forget your name, your tone changes, and your energy drops like a phone with 1% battery. I know the feeling — because I used to sound like a robot trying to give a TED Talk. The good news? You don’t need…

🧠 Let’s be honest:

Most people freeze when the camera turns on.

You suddenly forget your name, your tone changes, and your energy drops like a phone with 1% battery. I know the feeling — because I used to sound like a robot trying to give a TED Talk.

The good news? You don’t need acting lessons or a professional setup to sound natural. You just need to trick your brain into relaxing. Here’s what helped me — and what can help you too.


🎥 1. Start with Something Random

Don’t jump straight into your main point. Start the video while talking about anything — a weird dream, your breakfast, or a random question.

Example: “I still don’t understand why one sock always disappears in the laundry… anyway, let’s get to today’s topic.”

It eases you in like a warm-up stretch before a workout.


✍️ 2. Multitask to Relax

Do something small while talking — hold a pen, type on your laptop, or write on a notepad. This distracts your nerves and makes your body language more natural.


👁️ 3. Talk to Someone You Know

Place a photo of a friend or family member behind the camera. Pretend you’re talking to them, not a camera lens.

Start with something like:

“Hey Abdi…”
“Listen, John…”

Suddenly, it becomes a conversation — not a performance.


❓ 4. Read the Question Out Loud

If you’re doing Q&A-style videos, read the question aloud before answering. It gives you a natural starting point and keeps the tone conversational.

“Why do I sound fake on camera? That’s a great question…”


🧩 5. One Question at a Time

Break your recording into short clips — one answer at a time. This keeps your energy fresh and gives you space to breathe, reset, and be yourself.


🎙️ 6. Speak in Your Natural Voice

If you normally speak loudly, speak loudly. Don’t force yourself to sound calmer or more “professional” than you are. People connect with real, not perfect.


🔁 7. Repeat Until It Feels Right

Don’t be afraid to re-answer the same question 2–3 times until you feel relaxed. Every take gets you closer to your natural tone.


👥 8. Record With a Partner

Have someone sit behind the camera and ask you the questions. Just having a human presence can help your personality come out. You can cut out their voice later — or leave it in if it adds warmth.


🎯 Final Thoughts:

You don’t need to “perform” to be effective on camera. You just need to be you — the same way you talk to a friend or coworker.

The camera isn’t the problem. It’s just waiting for your real personality to show up.

Now go hit record. Start random. Stay real. One question at a time.

  • Let me know what you have tried that worked for you…

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